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"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf"          - Jon Kabat Zinn


In a time where we are hit with continuous stimuli, the waves of change seem to be moving faster than ever.  As we all pretend we know how to adult, we continue to struggle to learn how to better communicate our feelings and needs while working to be mindful of others.  I provide a nonjudgemental space to find tools to cope, resources to grow and maybe a few well needed curses to throw at what we can't control.  Video counseling gives us the opportunity for me to join you on your couch, which can create more comfort and ease in forming a trusting therapeutic relationship.

I work with individual adults, couples & throuples of all configurations.  I am proud to serve the LGBTQIA+, kink and consensually non-monogamous communities, as well as anyone else who feels they fall outside of traditional caucasian, cisgender and heterosexual norms.  We all need connection and support and I hope to be an empathetic companion as you work to learn the tools needed to more easily surf the storms of your life.  

Here's to sorting through all that shit together!  

Jacqui Boles, LMFT, ATR, BC-TMH

Treatment Issues, Populations & Modalities

  • Couples & Individual Therapy

  • Sexuality & Sexual Health

  • Gender Identity

  • Art Therapy

  • Adults, 18 and over

  • Video Counseling

  • LGBTQIA+ community 

  • Cancer/Chronic Health Issues

Get Connected

Check the resources tab to get resources, referrals and mental health info!  Or contact Jacqui @ (760) 697-0967  

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